Sunday, December 13, 2009

The Number One Reason I Hate Christams

TK left the house today in a self-loathing rage. She barely said goodbye and she blew at least one stop sign, which means also that she is gonna speed the whole way to work. Why? you ask. Well, I will tell you. Money. And not the money to pay the bills because that's done, but money to buy gifts. Obligation. She doesn't want to be perceived as the poor sister. It's Christmas, that's just what you do. Who fucking says? Why is it that Americans are forced to grow up with this STUPID notion that Christmas is all about who gives the best gifts? Fuck everyone who teaches their kids that a store bought, designed obsolete, polluting, plastic pieces of shit are better than anything handmade. All these people who are getting second jobs to buy their kids the next big landfill item, remember these toys are designed to fall apart after so long or become last years technology. Also remember that the "happiness" that toy brings is fleeting and the "joy" of giving is forgotten once the credit card bills come in. Consider what it even takes to make all those toys and electronics. And so it begins, there is not enough money in the world to make someone happy, but there is enough LOVE. Practical and beautiful hand-made gifts can be the wave of the future and the way we save our souls and planet. We all have talents that we haven't tapped into. Reflect on this before you buy anything unnecessary. I can't tell you all enough how sad my heart is right now.

3 comments:

Jeanette said...

We are drastically simplifying Christmas here this year. The kids are all making each other things - we have to buy somethings that will go into these creations, but at a fraction of the cost of bought gifts, and they've all been creative and come up with some great stuff. Mary is amazing by how different the holiday feels for her, how much less caught up she feels in the holiday stress, like she can take a step back and take it all in. We're still buying some things, but far less, and far more mindfully. I'm sorry you had a rough day sweetie. She'll come around.

Anonymous said...

MY NUMBER ONE REASON: IT IS NOT OF G-D. For it is written: Jeremiah 10:2 Thus saith the LORD, Learn not the way of the heathen, and be not dismayed at the signs of heaven; for the heathen are dismayed at them. verse 3..For the customs of the people are vain: for one cutteth a tree out of the forest, the work of the hands of the workman, with the axe. verse 4 They deck it with silver and with gold; they fasten it with nails and with hammers, that it moves not. verse 5..They are upright as the plam tree, but speak not: they must needs be borne, because they cannot go. Be not afraid of them; for they cannot do evil, neither also is it in them to do good. THAT SAYS IT ALL FOR ME!

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